Essay2.

The relationships between stepparents and stepchildren can vary most definitely. In some families, its better that the children have stepparents. But in others, it could mean a lot of change and hardships. Being a stepparent, or a stepchild are both equally as difficult, being as the parent must try and find a happy median with the child, and the child would need to be able to trust that new parent, and decide whether to accept them in the family. I have some experience with having a stepchild in my family. In teh beginning, yes it was hard for him, but now he loves the thought of having us all to love and look out for.

In these types of relationships, both the stepchild and stepparent discover some rough times. Not only as a parent entering a new family, but as a child entering a new world. Those times when a child needs to feel welcome and loved by everyone in teh household, can change, and then can become very hard for the child to trust and be open, if theres new things happening in the relationships. Most people think that these relationships are hardest on the kids, but in the end its difficult on the parents as well. Trying to endure a healthy relationship with a child can be demanding and hard, but doing taht when your jsut walking into that family can be even harder. A new family member is hard on everyone, especially when they havent grown with you, or dont even know you. Step relationships are extremely difficult in the beginning. But they tend to burn, and become less and less of a hassle.

Conflicts and Barriers are of course the starting point of building a relatioship. Parents and children must overcome some pretty hard times, before they can get to the good ones. Kids need to accept the fact that their parent has remarried, and has fallen in love with someone else. that doesnt mean that they quit loving their exspouse, but just has developed a new relatioship with them. Parents entering a new family also have some difficult things to do, like develop the childs trust and accept the fact that the child isnt going to liek you at first, and is goint o have a hard time getting to know you.

Some advantages of having Stepparents, or stepchildren are that of many. One is that a stepchild does not only have the love of 2 parents, but of 3. The child may not have the love or loving relationship with one parent, so the love from another one can greatly affect their outlook on life. For the stepparent, if they are not able to have kids on their own they can adopt that child and become a wonderful parent to it, if theyll let it. Some positive aspects of these relatioships are that families can grow and change in good ways, and become a very welcomeing enviroment for others.

I believe that families with step relationships are the strongest. For they have overcome the obstacles and hardships of developing a new found love and family. Of course its never easy in the beginning, but in the end its the best feeling of having someone else love and care for you that you would never imagine would. Having a Step brother in my family has brought us so much closer, and more open to new things. And for us, my brothers mother has took my younger brother and me, and raised us like we were her own kids. His mom and my mom get along great, and between both of our families, we love and respect each other for all that we have. being part of a stepfamily has taought me to appreciate all that we have and never forget that your family loves you no matter how messed up it is.

Essay 1.

This statement, " Madness in great ones must not unwatched go," is put towards great meaning in any day and age. From the past's great leaders, to the presents, no matter what their power might have been, need not to be over looked. In sheakepeare's, Hamlet, King Claudius refers to this quote as many great Kings and Queens as being "great ones" who have either served as great leaders, or fallen due to their weaknesses. In todays society, one of those great ones, could be described as Sadam Husein. He was once a great leader, and fought for what he felt was right for his country, but then the fall of Iraq came and he was no longer looked up to as a great man.

In Shakepeare's, Hamlet, the statement from King Claudius is said towards all the great people who had once been trusted, in Hamlet's life, and now have turned their back on him. Hamlet once had trusted and cared for King claudius, and his mother, but when he finds out that they have gone behind everyones backs, and decide to get married as soon as his father dies, there are no longer any trust between them. This story is a great example of being careful of who you trust, no matter their power, or relationship. Hamlet can trust his mother or uncle after this action, he must find others to help him solve the mystery of his fathers death and why his mother and uncle get married so soon after the death of his beloved father and King. Back in this time, I dont think that societies kept checks and balances on their "great ones." Back then the throne was passed down through generations, and it didnt matter what their personality, or how evil their mind was. It only mattered who and when they got the throne.

An example of this for todays age would be, September 11th, Sadam Husein. This man was once a great leader, who everyone in Iraq loved and admired. The country had statues of him everywhere, and would kiss at his feet when passed. He is a prime example of "Madness in great ones must not unwatched go," for his early actions as president of Iraq were great. Then towards the end of his presidency, he became unruly, and unjust. Then he was found to be one fo the leaders of the 9/11 attacks on the united states. There goes a once great ruler of a country, and ended up turning his back on his citizens, and has now started a long and painful War on his country.

These are two examples that put this statement true. Whether their societies think it right, or thier families and friends, a great leader will always go and do what they think is right for their country. If a society has the power to keep cheacks and balances on their rulers, then I think that history wouldnt be the same. Great leaders, have done the things they have because they think that they can get away with them. When being a great leader get to their head, they think, hey, i can do anyting and my poeple will follow me with whatever i do... But then they realize that the citizens of their countries, do have their own thoughts and feelings.

In this statement from Shakespeare's Hamlet, King Clauduis makes a wonderful point on Watching their backs when it comes to the powerful leaders. They may be the rulers of your country, but they can also have evil thoughts and may lead your country into disaster. Then especially when the leaders are in your family, you must trust them not to do anything that will change the way your poeple look at you. This statement, "Madness in great ones must not unwatched go," refers to all great people either in your life, or the ones running them.

Thinker Or Doer?

I believe that i am a little of both. I am a doer because i dont alwaysthink things through. I try to think things through, but that doesnt always happen. I tend to live in the moment and decide to do things on a spur of the moment. This usally gets me into trouble so i try to think about my actions before i do them. When im with my friends and my boyfriend i am usally a doer, becasue deciding what to do in a split second is usually more of a a thrill than thinking about whether your going to be getting in trouble for it in the end. But then again I do think things through when im in tough situations. decidiing whether i want chicken or steak at taco bell wouldnt be one of those times. but when im alone i tend to do this. thinking about what the right thing to do would be wiould probably be the hard decision for me. when im thinking about the outcome of some situations i think about all the possible things that could go wrong.

Being a doer can be good, yet it can have it downs as well. onegood thing about this quality is that i can decide on the flip of a coin what to do when im in a group setting. then realizing that the outcome really isnt that bad afterall. but deciding what to do in those times can be fun at teh same time. being a doer can makeyou open your eyes and experience the moments that you will never forget. a doer can also make you end up in the wrong place at the wrong time scenerio. but i also love to live for the moments that take my breath away and give me a rush of adrenaline. When im older i can look back and smile at not only the days of my youth but my life and all the chances i took at seeing a new side of life.

As for the thinking part of life, it comes 50/50 for me. I do like to take my time thinking things out therefore saving me some brutal consequences down the road. I can save myself and family or friends some heartache, or even some memories that are much better to be stored away rather then brought up. I can make life changing decisions or even the small day to day decisions in the rush of a moment. i think it is resonable to think out some scenerios and be smart about your life and how it can affect your future for college or even the outcome of many job opportunities. some people are just being dumb about not thinking before doing, and ruining their chances at a great career or job. Maybe even a college scholarship, to succeed in your life at doing something you love to do.

As for being both a thinker and a doer, I wouldnt change anything about myself. I think it comes in handy on my part for being 50/50 in that situation. i can control myself and not be stupid about certain situations but also have fun in the ride. i can be sensible and fun loving at the same time. so i much rather stay the way i am then worry about what others think. Im content on my life and my reactons to the small things. i am in control and still living my life to the fullest in every aspect of being safe.

Spying.

Parents "spying" on their kids can be a very controversial subject. As a kid, i know that i wouldnt want my parents knowing every move i make. I know I make some bad choices, and if my parents only knew some of the stupid things ive done, Im pretty sure id be dead in teh ground right now. My parents are for the most part pretty trustworthy of me, and im glad they are. But as a parent, i wouldnt trust my kids. knowing how teenagers are these days, i dont think id let my kids out of the house. I mean, yes of course id trust my kids, but there are some things that id rather not know that my kids do.
Im very htankful that my parents are as trustworthy as they are. I havent done anything to jeopardize that either. I think that i am pretty lucky when it comes to stuff that im aloud to do compared to other poeple my age. i dont have a curfew, I can go out and they wont call and check in on me, they trust me 100%. and I love that about my parents, becuase they know that if i do something wrong or really bad that, ill go to them and tell them and then know my consequences. I think ive only been grounded once in my life, and that was because of a bad mistake that i made, and i learned my lesson by losing their trust and having to earn it back slowly. but now, they trust me to make the right decisions, and if i dont, they already know that ill figure out my punishment.
As for when im a parent, i know that my kids will do things that i dont like, or understand. But i know that kids will be kids, and they will find ways to get away with things. In some instances, I dont think id want to know what they do, like, i want to be in the know of wat my kids are doing, but there are some things that i wouldnt want to know about them. for example, i dont think id want to know my kids sex life, well i would like to know if they have done things of course, but then id just tell them to use protection, and be careful. Not to tear their relationship apart because i dont trust them. its their life, and if they want to make poor choices, then they will need to find a way to make things better. not be saved by their mommy. the only way kid are going to learn, is if they make some wrong decisions, and turn them around themselves.

Revenge..

In todays time, people still seek revenge in many different ways. One revenge story that i can recall is when My dad and i got in a really big arguement, and he really made me mad, so to get back at him I spit in his food that he asked me to make.